Half of women said that they would prefer to have pillow chat rather than sex

A survey commissioned by Pfizer the manufacturer of the erectile dysfunction drug Viagra shows that there are big differences between the sexes when it comes to intimate pillow chat. The survey undertaken by Ipsos-Reid shows that over 80 percent of those couples questioned believe that pillow talk was an important part of their relationship and made them feel close to their partners but 86 percent of the men questioned said they would definitely rather have sex if they had to choose between the two. Half of the women said that they would prefer to have pillow chat rather than sex if they had a choice.

Men who ignore pillow chat before and after sex are likely to find that their women will soon be turned off by them. Practically all the women said that bed time talk was an essential part of the whole seduction and foreplay process and that it should not be ignored or hurried.

Men should realize that if women are valuing the talking as much as the sex act itself they should hold back a little bit longer. Men should also be aware that if they want to be rated as good lovers and want to see their women enjoying sex as much as they do they need to slow down and focus on what she wants too. At the end of the day you are likely to enjoy sex far more if your lady enjoys it too because she will make more of an effort and you are likely to get not only more sex but better sex.

It is interesting that this survey was commissioned by Pfizer because it shows that they are taking note of sexual attitudes between men and women. Many women complain that Viagra turns their men into sex machines rather than making them better lovers. Men who suddenly find regained erectile function with Viagra are known to be overenthusiastic, overconfident and mechanical instead of slowing down and making love intimately.

Viagra might give you a better erection but it won’t make you a better lover; you have to do that on your own.