Let's call this situation The Fear!

If a man is worried about not being able to get an erection he greatly increases the chances of that actual eventuality happening! If for example you are planning a romantic weekend away with a beautiful woman and you know that this is the weekend when it's going to happen you might be a little bit apprehensive and worried about your performance and this could translate into a concern that you might not even be able to get an erection at all!

The fear of not being able to perform on the night could well be the only reason why you can't get an erection and nothing else! Many healthy men report situations where they were just getting down to business but the thought of not being able to become aroused ended up dominating everything and they just could not focus on the woman! The same man often say that they were able to get an erection immediately after the bad experience by just relaxing and focusing on sexual thoughts.

Let's call this situation The Fear! If you think you might suffer from The Fear and maybe you already have with disastrous consequences you need to just do some mental exercises to calm yourself down and to remove the negative thought processes going through your head.

Firstly just don't panic! Practically every single woman remembers a time when she was with a man who did not get an erection. If it happens to you just tell the woman that you are a little bit stressed out and that there is no other problem with her or yourself. Communication is always King when it comes to sexual problems.

Just relax, take your time and don't try and force yourself to become erect. You might need to take a short break, focus on the foreplay which all women love and generally chilling out.

Never let The Fear get the better of you!