Be The Man With The Plan
Written by Rupert Kircz | Monday, 15 December 2008 | There are 0 comments
If you do all these little things you’ll find that your confidence improves 
The most important thing that men who are going bald must remember is that they must not lose their confidence with their hairline. Admittedly it is more difficult to be confident about your appearance when you are losing your hair but you must remember that having hair is not who you are and you should value yourself over and above your hairline.
A Sydney Morning Herald reporter, Samantha Brett recently wrote an article entitled “Confidence Equal Sex Appeal” in which she discussed a friend of hers who was losing his hair and thus feeling that he would never get a date again. There’s no doubt that hair can play a part in boosting the appearance of a man and also in boosting his confidence, however women do not go for hair alone and there is (and should be) much more to you as a man than your hairstyle.
If you are losing your hair you need to concentrate on other aspects of your appearance which will take the emphasis off your hairline. For example you should make sure that you make an extra effort with your clothes. Even though us men do not actually care too much about what we wear, women are far more perceptive about these things and can give you positive points for dressing well.
Make an effort also to stay in shape. It’s one thing to be bald, but to be fat and bald does not do you any favours. Go to the gym and work up some biceps, abs and chest muscles; it’ll make you stand up straighter and give you a more confident posture. Women also notice little things like good skin, good grooming and good after shave and showing that you look after yourself can make you attractive to them.
If you do all these little things you’ll find that your confidence improves and with this extra confidence you will relax and portray yourself to women as a person who is happy in his own skin despite hair loss. Being physically fit, well groomed and well dressed will invite compliments which in themselves will boost your confidence in a virtuous circle to the point where you will wonder why you ever worried about hair loss in the first place.
